Hello!
You in love?🥺
Or you’re not?🙂
Abi you’re waiting for Mr. Right or Mrs. Perfect?🌚
Dear Reader,
This article is going to be very useful to you..whether you’re in a relationship now or not,so don’t you even think of discarding this!🙄🙂
A relationship is a way in which two or more people or things are connected, or the state of being connected.🥂✨
In the context of couples, the phrase “in a relationship” usually means being in a committed, long-term romantic relationship.💯🎀
A committed relationship is one where two or more people agree to continue being in a relationship for the foreseeable future.❤️
“You have to understand that ,for a relationship to stand,there has to be love”❤️✨
Now for two people to come together to be in a relationship,means you both have considered every possible circumstances,flaws and possible issues y’all might encounter. 🙂🤌🏾
For a romantic long-term relationship to keep blooming and be very much in effect,a lot of effort is required from both parties and love to keep the relationship running smoothly,fun and educative! 🤩
1. LOYALTY AND TRUST: This is the foundation that’ll determine if your relationship is going to be genuine or if it’s going to crumble right before your eyes.
Just saying..🚶🏾♀️🚶🏾♀️
Both parties need to develop this for each other,get to know your partner,their past and present (don’t be an outsider in your relationship)🙂.You shouldn’t have to hear important information about your partner from an outsider or an ex .😔💔
Trust is very essential bruhh..you need to be secure about your partner,and be sure they’re committed to you and not the other way round!🤌🏾🤗
that’s not good for your health!
and we can’t have that🙂
2. COMMUNICATION: For your relationship to work,you need to communicate, infact you have to communicate with your partner!🙂
Fgs, he/she is not dating him/herself 🙂
You cannot be in a relationship and not call,text or look for a way to communicate with your partner, “I’m sorry,what are you doing then?“🙄.
Let your partner know your next move,your day to day activities,let them know if something’s up,random calls,texts in between work ..this are what makes a relationship beautiful!😍
Let people see your relationship and wish that on themselves, relationship is not a place of silence, communicate!🥺👉🏾👈🏾
You no go die,Femi🤌🏾
3. ADEQUATE ATTENTION:This cannot be over emphasized!🤌🏾
You love ’em? Show it! 💯..you want them? Show it!💯
Be 100% and intentional about every thing you do towards your significant other,🥺you’d realize you’re even having peace of mind,and no stress.😌
I get that some people do not like clingy people, but how would you claim you love someone and not overwhelm them with attention and love?🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Be clingy!🤩
“You better fix up and love up my dear!”🧏🏾♀️
Just a touch of your love,is enough to take control of my whole body!😍
Little Mix
4. DATE NIGHTS: Uh-uh not a word,you definitely need this!🥺👉🏾👈🏾
Go out! Leave video calls and voice calls and actually hangout with each other!🤌🏾💃🏾
Boo,a little spice up in your relationship isn’t gonna kill anybody,infact it’ll increase your bond and connection(take it from the expert😌).
You literally get to admire each other more and savour yourself.. 🤩😌
Give her a call, tell her to get dressed🤩..
Give him a call,tell him to get dressed😍.
You don’t have to go to a fancy restaurant,doesn’t even have to be restaurant,take yourselves to places where you can be alone and feel connected 👉🏾👈🏾🥺.
Tell yourselves whatever you’re going through,share your thoughts, feelings and lift each other’s spirits!💯❤️
I trust you’d take my advice!
5. UNPLANNED GIFTS: “Sister,Brother don’t always wait until you’re celebrating something before you gift your partner!”✨
Always try to gift your partner even at random times,it doesn’t have to something so expensive..but something very valuable.. 🎀
“you was out and you saw something your partner might like? Buy it darling..💗
He/She would appreciate it(well if your partner is a very appreciative person tho).😌
Believe me!😌
6. HAVE PET NAMES: yes darling!🎀
Get the love of your life,a cute and beautiful pet name that only both of y’all call each other..or maybe like a secret code for both of yourselves.🤩
Trust me,it can never go wrong.
From calling each other pet names,you’d find out that y’all can create a lot of secret handshakes, codes, talks and love languages for yourself..and from there y’all get something that connects you both to each other!🤩🤌🏾
7.ALWAYS LISTEN: oh! she’s always complaining, he’s talking too much..are you even listening?🥲
You’re thinking you’ve figured them out,or you know them so well,that when they’re talking about things they do not appreciate in the relationship you’re just fixed on what’s in your head already.😔💔
If you’re the type that cherishes your partner,but you fall under this category, “you’re ending your relationship before it even stood a chance”🤦🏾♀️
People change,and yes even partners change..so if your significant other keeps complaining about something you’re not doing right,why don’t you relax and check yourself?💆🏾♀️
“if it’s something only you can fix,then do it!🤷🏾♀️
If it’s a both party work, please don’t hesitate,okay?🧏🏾♀️
Except y’all aren’t interested in each other anymore.🥲
And for you that you’re looking for Mr.Right or Mrs.perfect,why don’t you relax and let yourself be loved by someone who really wants to? 🤷🏾♀️
Lower your expectations and who knows? Love just might find you!😊🤌🏾
I want to be very sure that with all this highlighted points,you should be able to fix up and pick the one you was lacking in and start applying pressure on your man or woman!🎀✨
Always put your partner into consideration in whatever you do,of course “put yourself first” but consider your significant other too and that might be the beginning of endless love for both of you!🎀❤️✨
Till next time, “KEEP BEING POSITIVE” and “I’M ROOTING FOR YOU!💯
Also,”Learn to love the right way and be loved the right way too!”✨

WRITTEN BY: MORENIKEJI A.ODEBIYI

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